Last night I had a dream that my ex showed up at my house randomly and wanted to see the kids. The children were confused, Eva was frightened and Xander was angry and upset. I woke up that way. This is the last day that my ex can contest the divorce. If he doesn't or does nothing at all, my lawyer can file and my divorce will be final in six weeks. If he has done nothing at all, it would also mean that the courts will be chasing him for awhile, because he is supposed to have provided information and failing to do so is an issue. But hopefully, this is the end of the line for this whole thing.
I want to move forward with my life and feel like my kids are protected and safe. I don't have any reason to feel that he would contest, but he has been a slimy piece of work up until now so you never know.